In 1988, when two of my sisters-in-law, Lora and Marcia Marin were struggling with Huntington’s disease (HD), I became obsessed with increasing John’s Life insurance. He was employed by Placer County and as a manager he received a free $50,000.00 life insurance policy. What is HD
To protect my family and to lower my anxiety, I felt $50,000.00 was inadequate, because of John’s at risk status for HD, and set my sights on securing a private life insurance policy for John.
I remember the question that was on the applications that was the cause the denial: “If a parent is deceased, what was the cause of their death?” I wrote, “Huntington’s disease”.
We Can Never Lose HOPE……..
Watching Their Dance: Three Sisters, a Genetic Disease and Marrying into a Family At Risk for Huntington’s is available on Therese’s author website http://www.theresecrutchermarin.com and many book websites like Amazon
On this day, the beginning of the new year, I want to take a moment to be thankful, and to remind myself to continue having forgiveness & hope in my heart, and to keep kindness and mindfulness in my everyday activities.
2019 is here and what a great year 2018 was for my family as my father is healthy at 89 years old and my sisters and children are also healthy and happy. It has been a joyous year for the Huntington’s disease community; with the positive outcome of Ionis HTTRx drug and Genentech/Roche moving quickly to setup clinical trials around the world for the now HG6042 drug. Ionis HTTRx program and its future
My sister, Jen, and our dad
John & our children & their spouses
To learn about Genentech/Roche plan, click below on video.
We Can Never Lose HOPE…….
Therese is the author of Watching Their Dance, an inspirational love story while living in the shadow of Huntington’s disease. It can be purchased on her Author Website or Amazon
100% of the profit from the book is being donated to the nonprofit Huntington’s Disease Society of America (HDSA). December 2017, she donated $9,015.00 to HDSA which was the profit from 2017 book sales.
In the 1960’s, when my three sisters and I were growing up in Shawnee Mission, Kansas, my parents, Jim and Rita always made Christmas special for their children. Since we were a Catholic family, the focus was on the birth of Christ. Every year, my mother brought out the Advent Wreath that held three purple candles and one pink, designating the four weeks before Christmas. Before dinner, we said our prayer and then lit the appropriate candle(s). The themes of Advent are hope, peace, joy and love.
I have fond memories of Christmas Eve; dinner and presents at my Grandparents home, midnight Mass and a life size Nativity scene in the hall outside St. Pius Church entrance.
May your holiday be filled with hope, happiness, love and family memories, new and old.
I’ve had something on my Bucket List for a very long time, and this year I get to check it off. (A Bucket List is a list of things that one has not done before but wants to do before dying.)
My wish is to experience Christmas in another country without the commercialism and hype that we see in the United States. Quite frankly, I’m tired of blow-up snowmen displayed on lawns and the Christmas ads on TV before Halloween.
My family will be celebrating Christmas in the quaint little Italian town of Cortona, Italy. Keith, Fran, Scott and Vanessa will arrive on December 22nd along with Dawn, Jim and Casey Garrett.
Since John and I are retired, we left on November 29th and flew into Lisbon, Portugal and began a journey traveling through Spain, France and into Italy, arriving December 18 . We booked a 9- bedroom villa, Villa Luisella, for a week for all of us to enjoy together. Cortona is a town in the province of Arezzo, in Tuscany, Italy. It is the main cultural and artistic center of the Val di Chiana after Arezzo. Discover Tuscany-Cortona
A few days after Christmas, December 29th, John and I will take a train to the Zermatt, Switzerland where John will ski and we’ll celebrate the New Year.
Excerpt from the nonfiction book, Watching Their Dance: Three Sisters, a Genetic Disease and Marrying into a Family At Risk for Huntington’s:
In Chapter 26, page 206, John and I take Aunt Marcia, Keith and Vanessa on a Christmas adventure to cut down a Christmas tree and on the way home we stopped and had hot chocolate. It’s a positive memory my children have with their Aunt Marcia who was struggling with Huntington’s disease.
“Two weeks before Christmas, we treated Marcia and the kids to a surprise. We loaded everyone into the van and headed to McBurney Christmas Tree Farm, just outside Grass Valley. We slid a Mickey Mouse Christmas cassette into the tape player, and Keith and Vanessa sang The Twelve Days of Christmas all the way there. Just as we pulled into the parking lot, snow began falling, setting the stage for a perfect day. John turned around and said, ‘You guys get to pick out your very own tree this year, and then you can help me cut it down.’
Keith’s eyes grew big. ‘Do I really get to help chop it down, Dad?’
‘Yes, but you have to mind your father, Keith, and do exactly what he tells you.’ I bundled the kids up, and they were out of the car in a heartbeat.”
Watching Their Dance, an inspiration love story while living in the shadow of Huntington’s disease. 100% of the proceeds from the book is being donated to the nonprofit, Huntington’s Disease Society of America. It’s available on Therese’s author website http://www.theresecrutchermarin.com and many book websites like Amazon
Many of you may not know that Kate Miner, actress, musician, Huntington’s Disease (HD) Advocate has HD in her family. Her mother, and two sisters tested positive. Kate tested negative. What-is-HD?
Jenne Coler-Dark & her husband
Kate & her 2 sisters
Last year, when I was publishing my book, Watching Their Dance, I reached out to Kate requesting a book jacket comment. She graciously agreed and her comment appears on the front cover. Kate and her husband are supporters of the HDSAFREEZE HD event that was held on Sept. 22, 2018 in Los Angeles.
A few days ago, I found this awesome film, The Race, that includes Jenne Coler-Dark’s HD story,Kate Miner’s sister and who is gene positive. Read Jenne Coler-Dark’s Story
The film is about a young, idealistic Huntington’s Disease researcher who comes face-to-face with three generations of a family devastated by the fatal, incurable disease she studies. For the scientist, who has never met anyone with Huntington’s Disease, the stakes of her research become real. For a Huntington’s Disease patient at the center of the story who is watching her mother sicken, fearing her own demise, and afraid for her two kids, it’s a mother’s plea – and a race against time
I don’t know what I would do without my family; especially John. My kids, Keith and Vanessa, are also terrific and stand right along beside me, along with their spouses, Fran and Scott. Although I don’t say it enough to them, I have the bestfamily.
I’m blessed and thankful to have these people in my life, knowing they will always be there for me and, in turn, I will always be there for them. My love for them continues to grow along with the appreciation I feel for them. why-family-is-not-an-important-thing-its-everything/
Since I’m a Huntington’s disease (HD) advocate, and an active volunteer with the Huntington’s Disease Society of America (HDSA), I use HDSA’s hashtags, #FamilyIsEverything and #HDSAFamily on my blog, Facebook wall, twitter, Instagram and Google+ posts all the time. What is Huntington’s disease/
Give your family members a hug, forgive and remember, Family is Everything!
I haven’t written about Hospice care for awhile, so I thought I’d post this article on the benefits of palliative and hospice care, at the end of life, which applies to everyone, because none of us get out of this alive.
The last 10 years of my career in healthcare was in hospice care and it was the most fulfilling work I have ever done in my life. It was privilege to be allowed into community folks homes to support the patient and family as they prepare for the inevitable loss of their loved one. For info on Hospice care, go to: https://www.nhpco.org/
People ask me, “Why do you donate your time to help in the fight against Huntington’s disease (HD) when it will not ever affect your family again?”
Yes, John dodged the Huntington’s disease bullet, he didn’t inherit the mutated huntingtin gene like his three (3) sisters and mother and for that we are so grateful. http://hdsa.org/what-is-hd/#risk
I do it because I don’t want anyone to feel alone like John and I did when Lora, Marcia and Cindy were struggling with the disease process. In the 80″ & 90″s support groups were non existent and there were very few neurologists knowledgeable about HD.
Today, there is so much support, information, and neurologists available to families so I spend much of my time on social media getting the word out. Facebook has HD support groups you join and there are many online support groups facilitated by social workers. http://hdsa.org/osg/http://www.hdscn.org/ https://help4hd.org/