Love, The Marin Siblings

A Letter to the Mother-in-Law I Never Knew

Phyllis Iva (Cahoon) Marin, the mother-in-law I never knew, has been on my mind through the years.  I wish I’d known her and I feel cheated not to have had her in my life. I’ve written a letter to her to express my feelings.

Dear Phyllis, 

My name is Therese Marie Crutcher-Marin and I married your kind-hearted son, John Anthony Marin and we will celebrate 40 years of marriage on Sept. 27th. 

I want to thank you for giving him to the world, a world where I was able to find him.  He is the love of my life and I’m ashamed to say I almost didn’t marry him, out of fear, because of the threat of Huntington’s disease.  If John had inherited the mutated huntingtin gene and became ill, I would have taken care of him, since that’s what I believe you do for the people you love.    

Your three daughters, Lora, Marcia and Cindy, were also benevolent, compassionate women and you would have been proud of the kind of people they became as adults.  I loved these women like they were my own sisters and I miss them everyday.  Unfortunately, Huntington’s disease stole them away from us, but rest assured, John and I took care of them through their long journey’s with this horrific disease.  

I find comfort knowing that the four of you are together in heaven, as it should be, a mother with her children, and I pray your souls find peace spending eternity together with our loving Father. 

I’m looking forward to meeting you one day.

Your devoted daughter-in-law, Therese

 

We Can Never Lose HOPE….

My author website is:  https://theresecrutchermarin.com

Author Therese Crutcher-Marin

 

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  • Reply Sandy Hurlbert June 18, 2020 at 4:00 pm

    What a lovely letter, Therese! I remember Aunt Phyllis as a kind, sweet lady. She was very quiet, never said much. In retrospect Marcia was a lot like I remember Aunt Phyllis.

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